English is Tough Stuff
Unfortunately, the spelling of English words doesn't give much of a clue as to how to pronounce them. Take the combination of letters "ough" for example. This is pronounced "oo" in through,
"off" in cough, "uff" in tough, "ow" in bough.
So the only remedy to the second problem stated in the posting of Oct 10th is exposure and practice. You need to hear and see words at the same time. Books on tape for instance, are a good idea. Movies with subtitles are also good. Additionally, there are many places on the internet where you can read essays or speeches and listen to them at the same time. I will add some links in the coming days.
There is a poem called "English is tough stuff" which points out many words where the spelling
of words are similar but the sound is different. In order to make use of this though, you need to work with a native speaker. http://www.unique.cc/ron/estuff.htm
Every time I work with a student on this poem, I am glad I learned English as a baby. I would have a great deal of difficulty learning all this now.

